Daily Devotional: Do not doubt your talents!

Today’s passage is an entire chapter; please refer to Ezekiel 4 NIV.

            In the Old Testament, the origin stories of Major and Minor Prophets are outlined in each prophetic book. Many of the Old Testament prophets either come from humble beginnings and menial labor jobs or aristocratic, educated positions. In Ezekiel’s case, he is a rather eccentric artist who is called to be a prophet to warn the Israelites of the consequences of their disobedience.

            Ezekiel’s performance art and demonstration, dictated to him by the Lord and used to personify the punishments planned for the people of Israel, is an incredible example of how God will magnify our individual talents and predispositions to spread his Word—we just have to be obedient. In a world focused on earning money, corporate work, and public facing ministries, it can be difficult to feel valuable as a Christian artist. However, the exciting truth is that God has a job for each of us to do in this life that only we can do, no matter what talents we have or don’t have. It is important that we move as bravely and passionately as Ezekiel—there’s no doubt that the general public assumed he was crazy—he prophesized in spite of how it may be received and he prophesized the only way that came naturally to him, using his creative talents to get his point across. When it comes to serving the Lord, we all can benefit from courageously applying our strengths to the task at hand.

Meditation: God already qualifies us for the job. Consider ways in which you have procrastinated or avoided the calling on your life. Pray for the strength to stop making excuses, and for the faith to follow through on His plans for you. Know that you can and will do incredible things! Trust in Him and be a blessing to the generations to come.

Daily Devotional: Without Self-Awareness, Worship is Just Performance

In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord, high and exalted, stead on a throne; and the train of his robe filled the temple. Above him were seraphim, each with six wings: with two wings they covered their faces, with two they covered their feet, and with two they were flying. And they were calling to one another: 

“Holy, holy, holy is the Lord Almighty; 

The whole earth is full of his glory.” 

At the sounds of their voices the doorposts and thresholds shook and the temple was filled with smoke.  

“Woe to me!” I cried. “I am ruined! For I am a man of unclean lips, and I live among a people of unclean lips, and my eyes have seen the King, the Lord Almighty” 

Isaiah 6: 1- 5 NIV 

Isaiah is called to be a prophet, and when he is confronted with the spirit of God, he sees himself.  Immediately he feels convicted to improve himself, change his surroundings, and seek out better associates and friends.  

The insight in Isaiah’s experience is that true worship and relationship with God is not possible without self-awareness and accountability. The timing of when he is led to the Lord also shows that sometimes the Lord must remove something or someone from our life in order to make room for His plan. While it is much easier to apply the word of God to the flaws of those around us instead of self-reflecting on the things we need to change in order to align with God’s will for our lives, Isaiah shows us that it must be done. It is crucial that we apply what we learn to ourselves with humility and confession in prayer so that we can continue to grow spiritually and mature with the Holy Spirit. Without self-awareness, worship and study are diluted into shallow performances and self-righteousness, which not only starves us spiritually and pushes a wedge between us and God, but also leads to condemnation and spiritual hurt for every Christian.

Meditation: Consider ways that you can improve your relationship with yourself. Are you compassionate with yourself? Do you hold yourself accountable? Meditate on ways that can you worship Him with more accountability and honesty. Confess your flaws and weaknesses to God, acknowledge areas that need more work, and pray for the strength and Spirit to assist you in your spiritual maturity and growth.

Daily Devotional: Use Your Blessing

When Esther’s words were reported to Mordecai, he sent back this answer: “Do not think that because you are in the king’s house you alone of all Jews will escape. For if you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place, but you and your father’s family will perish. And who knows but that you have come to your royal position for such a time as this?”

Esther 4:12-13 NIV 

God blesses us so that we can be a blessing to others. Mordecai convicts Esther to stand up for her people by demonstrating how God blessed her with the opportunity to be queen with intention of saving His people. Mordecai puts things into perspective—you can choose not to live up to the calling on your life, however, you and your family may suffer unnecessarily, and the Lord will always make sure His will is carried out so while you miss the opportunity to bless others through your blessing, another will take the place made for you in His kingdom. Of course, obeying God’s call is not about an exchange of blessings. The point is, is that for every calling on your life or conviction to do or change something using the blessings poured unto you, it is important to be obedient because there are others depending on your obedience.

Be confident that if He has already put you in position, meaning you have the stability, you have the talent, you’ve received the call, whatever it is—it’s important not to second guess yourself. God works deliberately and always has a plan for us. Follow Him! It could mean the difference between mediocrity and blessing future generations or loved ones.

Meditation: Think about ways you can bless others with what you have been blessed with in life. Do you have a special skill or talent that could be applied to helping, teaching, or edifying others? Have you recently started making more money that you could help someone else with? Are there any family members or friends or acquaintances in your life that you could possibly assist in a hardship? Consider these opportunities, then pray for the strength to follow through on any calling you may be ignoring for fear of failure, lack, etc. Getting over that fear, walking with Him, and carrying out your duty could be the biggest blessing for someone in your life, and you’ll never know unless you are faithful to His call.

don’t cling

Sometimes when God answers your prayers, it’s just an opportunity to show you that what you asked for isn’t what you actually need. I believe He sends certain things my way so that I can use my discernment to prove to myself that I’ve outgrown the cycle, and to learn how to not fall back into my old ways.

I recently broke up with a person who I thought was the answer to my prayers for a real, healthy relationship. Since I met him after praying to God that I would not “fumble a real one” if He sent him my way, the timing seemed perfect. He is kind, fun to be around, financially stable, intelligent, and all of the other things I so desperately wanted in a man. The only thing is, in order to be with him, I would have had to compromise on my devotion to seeking healthy interdependence. Since I didn’t experience any heartbreak or poor treatment, I was pretty confused when things came, amicably, to an end. As always, I thought of any mistakes I might have made and how I could do better in the future. Finally, I realized that it was never about what either party was doing wrong or how we were hurting each other or missing red flags, it was just simply a test of how far would I be willing to go to keep my promise to God and myself. Like, hey, here’s your “perfect” guy but in order to be with him you’ll have to backslide into making a project out of his issues, being his therapist, making excuses for his quirks because you “understand him so well”, and becoming too engrossed in merging lives with him. Obviously, I refused.

I also became more aware of my own codependent habits, and worked to nip those in the bud so that I can be a more balanced and healthy partner when the right person does come along. I started going to therapy, working to be more open about my past and emotions, and more attuned to meeting the needs (within reason) of my partner. I’ve never been in a serious relationship before this one, so learning to honor the love languages of another person with more genuine interest and compromise was a new experience for me. I’m used to just doing things by myself, on my own time, and how I want them to be done. I’m used to men only dating me for sex or to eventually devalue and discard me when they were tired of the rush of a new “love” interest or realized that they didn’t actually like me for me but rather, what I could do for them. Learning to go deeper into the emotional and mental areas of what makes a real relationship has been an invaluable lesson. Starting therapy has been super helpful as well! I’m finally able to process trauma I didn’t even realize was still affecting me, with guidance to help me achieve real self-actualization and peace. I’m working on, and more aware of how my survival instincts and trauma-ignited insecurities don’t have to be a part of my new reality of security, independence and contentment. I’m finally learning how to be Denise. The Denise that God intended, before the world, family, school, and trauma started smothering my real identity, by telling me I was wrong and by forcing me into the role of taking care of others before myself, when it should never have been an issue for me to face as a child anyway. In the past, whenever I’ve become aware of things like this, I tried to rebuke them entirely from my identity, which is counterproductive. You can’t hate parts of yourself and expect to ever feel content or whole. Therapy has helped me see the strength in what I’ve experienced and how I’ve survived so that I can keep using it to my advantage, while actually becoming who I’m supposed to be. 

What’s even better is that, since I’m not the same angry, traumatized person, my ex and I are on great terms. The love that I feel for him and vice versa has not wavered or dissipated. The love I feel for him is not the controlling, idealistic nonsense that I equated with love when I was younger and just desperate for someone to fill my voids or validate me.

Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.

Hebrews 11:1 NIV

 When we can learn from God without clinging to our expectations, or what we want versus what we need and what He wants for us, lessons can be learned from a place of self-love instead of bitterness! Good things can be experienced without eventually souring in our hearts, as hard-headed behaviors often lead us to becoming so shredded and hurt by the thing we should have let go of that we must pick ourselves up from rock bottom. Walking in faith, without clinging, also gives God plenty of room to do His thing in your life! His plans are always for our highest good and in our best interest, even if they don’t feel that way in the moment or seem to go against what we want. I don’t know about you, but I’d much rather let go of the small-thinking things that I want or think I need, in exchange for the amazing blessings God has in store for me!

Today, think about the things in your life that you cling to or want more than anything. Whether it’s a job, relationship, opportunity, etc. Ask yourself if you’re focusing so deeply on it out of desperation or a personal obsession, or if it’s actually part of God’s plan for you. Not sure how you can tell the difference? If what you’re into is taking everything out of you just to maintain or achieve it, it’s probably a you idea, and not a God idea. If it doesn’t bring you peace, feels forced, or something feels a little off, you should probably back off and double check that you’re headed in the right direction! I know it’s really hard to just let go and let God when you really love someone or you really have a goal in mind, but you owe it to yourself to receive the full amount of His inheritance for you, and to reduce the amount of suffering you have to go through in order to receive it. It’s cliche, but literally. Just let go and let God.